Surround a child with books, and reading will come on its own. That idea shaped how many schools taught reading for years. Talking grows that way, but reading does not. So if more books changed nothing, you have not missed something obvious. Your child isn’t broken; their brain is learning differently.
FROM THE VIDEO
Key moments from the panel discussion in the video above with educational psychologist Karen, specialist teacher Sally, and parent and teacher Louise Henry:
Common questions from parents
Why isn’t more reading practice helping my child?
Is Orton-Gillingham the right choice for my child?
What helps at home when reading homework ends in tears?
Should I start with a screener or a full evaluation?
The school added more reading time. Nothing changed. Across 22 trials, one kind of teaching stood out, and it is aimed, not added.
Why hasn’t more reading help worked?
You asked the school for help, and the help was more of the same. More reading time, more books, more practice. Karen, an educational psychologist on the panel in the video, names the gap. Help for dyslexia needs to be “targeted to what they need,” she says. She adds that many schools take “a generalist approach” instead.
Sally, a specialist teacher on the panel, trained when reading was taught well. Even so, she found good general teaching was not enough for these children. A better version of the usual help did not solve it.
Talking comes from being around talk. Reading is different. Scientists such as David Geary and Stanislas Dehaene explain why. They describe reading as something the brain was never built for. So there is no reading instinct to fall back on. That is not a failing in your child. It is true of every reader who ever lived. The part of reading that isn’t natural has to be taught on purpose. Keep talking and reading aloud together, though. The talking part is natural, and your child needs lots of it.
Slow, steady work on one point is what good teaching looks like here.
Laura Lurns · Learning Success expert
What does targeted teaching look like?
Targeted teaching starts with one question. Which sound skill has this child not built? Louise Henry, a teacher and parent on the panel, found out at home. Her daughter melted down over a simple rhyme-sorting game. She could not split a word into its first sound and the rest. Louise had taught for years and did not know this had a name. It is phonological awareness: hearing the separate sounds inside words. Here is how to find the exact sounds your child is missing.
Sound trouble is not the whole story for every child. The International Dyslexia Association’s 2025 definition speaks to this. It calls trouble with the sounds and parts of words “common but not universal.” So good help checks which skill is missing, then teaches that skill first.
Then comes the teaching itself. Galuschka and colleagues (2014) reviewed 22 randomized trials. Phonics was the only approach that reached statistical significance. The National Reading Panel (2000) found that systematic phonics instruction significantly improves reading. In plain words, look for teaching that is:
- Explicit. The teacher shows each sound and its letters directly. Nothing is left to guess.
- Systematic. Skills come in a set order, and each one builds on the last.
- Paced to your child. The panel’s rule is one teaching point at a time, taught until it sticks. That often takes two or three lessons.
Pushing faster does harm. The panel says pushed children “mentally fold up and shut down.” Slow, steady work on one point is what good teaching looks like here.
Key takeaways
- Reading has to be taught: Talking grows from being around talk, but reading needs direct, step-by-step teaching.
- Aim the help: Find the sound skill your child has not built, and teach that skill first.
- Slow is correct: One teaching point at a time, taught until it sticks, is the pace the panel recommends.
What should you ask the school for?
To us, this is a story about missing training, not bad teachers. Karen says English-speaking schools taught whole language “for probably a couple of decades.” It leaned on the idea that reading grows on its own. Teachers were “receptive in principle,” she says. Many did not have the skills or programs to teach reading another way.
The harm was real. One parent on the panel watched her daughter sit through a class reading lesson. She called it “a complete waste of her time” and “damaging to her self-esteem.” The IDA’s 2025 definition now says it plainly: “Although identification and targeted instruction are important at any age, language and literacy support before and during the early years of education is particularly effective.”
So ask direct questions. Nobody will ever advocate for your child as hard as you will.
- Is the reading help explicit, systematic phonics?
- Which sound skill is it aimed at right now?
- Does it move at my child’s pace, one point at a time?
- Is the person teaching it trained in structured literacy?
At home, Karen’s advice is gentle. Protect quiet time after school, because a day of hard reading is tiring. Help your child find wins in other places, like sport, art or dance. Keep homework short, with a clear end, at the same time each day. She suggests about 15 minutes, right after dinner. The panel is honest that teaching your own child to read is hard. Some parents teach at home, and some do the asking. Both are real help.
To us, this is a story about missing training, not bad teachers.
Laura Lurns · Learning Success expert
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