Archbishop Sarah Mullally, who has dyslexia, told the Church of England’s General Synod in July 2026 there is a difference between neurodivergent people “functioning” and “flourishing.” The distinction she drew has implications far beyond the church — and directly for parents navigating learning support for their children.

Common questions

What does “functioning vs. flourishing” mean for a child with dyslexia?

“Functioning” means a child gets through the school day with support in place — extended time, text-to-speech, a reading aide. “Flourishing” means the child is building the actual skills to need less support over time, not more. The distinction matters because accommodations work in two directions: the right support at the right moment builds capability; support provided as a substitute for skill-building removes the incentive to build the underlying skill. Ask of any accommodation: what is this building toward, and how will we know when the skill is established?

Is dyslexia really a gift?

Strengths do emerge in many people with dyslexia — empathy, pattern recognition, creative problem-solving. But the research direction is that these strengths are earned through productive engagement with the struggle, not handed over in place of it. Many dyslexic people say the “gift” framing makes the hard parts feel erased. The more useful frame for parents: the brain your child has today is not the brain they will have after a year of the right kind of practice. That is not a motivational poster — it is what the brain imaging actually shows (Shaywitz, Yale; Temple, Stanford).

How do I know if my child’s reading accommodation is building skills or replacing them?

Ask your child’s school two questions: (1) What specific skill is this accommodation scaffolding? (2) What would need to be true for this accommodation to no longer be needed? If there is no clear answer, the support is managing the gap rather than closing it. A screener is a starting point, not a diagnosis. If your child might need formal accommodations such as an IEP or 504 plan, or if you suspect a vision, hearing, or medical cause, a professional evaluation is the required route to those supports — and worth pursuing alongside any home-based skill-building.

What questions should I bring to my child’s next IEP or school meeting?

Three that rarely get asked: (1) Is each accommodation in the plan building toward independence, or managing the gap indefinitely? (2) What does the intervention data say about my child’s trajectory — are the skills growing, or are we just keeping pace? (3) If my child used this support for five years, what would be different about their ability to read without it? These questions shift the conversation from “is the accommodation in place” to “is the child building the skill.” That is the functioning-to-flourishing question in practical form.