The vacuum starts, and your child bolts with both hands over their ears. Or a hard fall brings no tears at all. Maybe someone told you that you are making too much of it. You are not alone, and you are not imagining it. Your child isn’t broken, their brain is learning differently.
Common questions from parents
Why does my child overreact to noise, tags and crowds?
My child barely notices a fall. Is that sensory too?
Who should I talk to about my child’s sensory reactions?
What helps at home this week?
Hates every loud room? Barely notices a fall? What the AAP said about sensory processing in 2012, and what helps at home.
What does this infographic show, in plain words?
The infographic is about sensory processing. That means how a child takes in sound, touch, light, taste and smell. It also means how they react to it. The infographic shows two patterns that look like opposites.
- Over-responding. Small sounds or touches feel huge. Think shirt tags, hand dryers, or a crowded room. The child pulls away, covers up, or melts down.
- Under-responding. Input barely seems to land. The child misses their name, or does not seem to feel a bump. Some go looking for more, like spinning, jumping or squeezing.
The infographic makes a fair point too. This is not only about the senses. Parents tell us they see it in feelings and in movement as well. A child flooded by noise has a hard time staying calm, too.
Two parts of the infographic need a note. It shows a large percentage figure for children. It names no source, and the research we hold gives no such figure. So we leave the number out. It also shows a quote from a named expert that we could not trace. We leave that out too.
Write down what set off a hard moment, and what helped. Bring those notes with you.
Laura Lurns · Learning Success expert
Is sensory processing disorder a real diagnosis?
Maybe you have heard the name sensory processing disorder, or SPD. In 2012, the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) looked at it. It said there was no agreed way to diagnose it. So it told doctors not to use it as a diagnosis. To us, that does not make what you see any less real.
The AAP also said something useful for parents. Sensory trouble shows up with other differences too. It named autism, ADHD, trouble with coordination, and anxiety. So it asked doctors to look at the whole child, not only the senses. That is a reason to talk with your child’s doctor. It is not a reason to panic. Here is what the AAP said, and what we do not hold.
Key takeaways
- Two patterns: Some children over-respond to sound and touch. Others barely notice it.
- The AAP in 2012: It advised doctors against using SPD as a diagnosis.
- Start at home: Lower noise and light, warn before loud moments, and keep notes.
What helps at home, starting this week?
Start by watching before you change anything. Write down what set off a hard moment, and what helped. Bring those notes to any professional you see.
- Lower the load. Turn down noise and bright light where your child plays and works. Offer a quiet corner, or soft headphones in loud places.
- Warn before the loud part. Tell your child the blender is coming on soon. Then the noise is not a surprise.
- Make room for big movement. If your child seeks movement, give it a safe place. Try jumping, carrying heavy things, or a run in the yard.
- Go easy on clothes. Cut out tags. Let your child pick the soft things they will wear.
Then get a second set of eyes. Start with your child’s pediatrician, who looks at the whole child. An occupational therapist (OT) works on senses, movement and daily routines. The AAP left room for OT with sensory-based work. It saw it as one part of a wider plan. It also asked for clear goals and a time limit. A behavior diary was one way it named to track them. So ask any therapist what the goal is. Ask how you will both know it is working.
The AAP was plain with families about one thing:
“parents should be informed that the amount of research regarding the effectiveness of sensory integration therapy is limited and inconclusive.” – American Academy of Pediatrics, 2012
The debate over a name does not change what you see at home.
Laura Lurns · Learning Success expert
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References
- American Academy of Pediatrics, Section on Complementary and Integrative Medicine and Council on Children with Disabilities; Zimmer, M., & Desch, L. (2012). Sensory integration therapies for children with developmental and behavioral disorders. Pediatrics, 129(6), 1186-1189.
