
Why does my mind go blank when my boss hands me something to read? You got the job, and you do it well. Then a page lands in front of you while people wait. The words stop making sense, and your face goes hot. You are not alone in this, and that moment has a history.
FROM THE VIDEO
Key moments from the A2i Dyslexia live show with Simon Phillips:
Common questions from parents
Do adults still get better at reading?
Should I tell my employer I struggle with reading?
What should a manager do first?
I see my own school years in my child. Where do I start?
Why do capable adults freeze when the boss hands them a page to read? One manager found the answer was fear, and the first support was free.
Why does the freeze hit at work?
Simon Phillips has managed staff and taught adults to read. He says managers remember the software and forget the feelings. His colleague Maria seemed to struggle with some tasks. Later he saw it another way. She was freezing with fear, not failing the task.
Simon says many adults he meets were never picked up at school. Some were called lazy or stupid. Nothing in that story sounds like laziness to us. It sounds like a reading struggle that nobody named. That is the wait-to-fail system at work. A child struggles for years before anyone looks closely. Do those old words still sting? Here is why one harsh word about your reading lasts so long.
Our view is that old school fear comes back under pressure. A deadline does it. So does a meeting, or a page you must read out loud. To us, the freeze does not look like a slow mind. It looks like an old fear showing up at a bad time.
The first support at work is not software; it is lowering the fear.
Laura Lurns · Learning Success expert
Do reading skills still grow for adults?
The old advice was to accept it and learn to cope. That advice treats reading as fixed for good. The field’s own definition says otherwise. In 2025, the International Dyslexia Association wrote this:
“Although identification and targeted instruction are important at any age, language and literacy support before and during the early years of education is particularly effective.”
Read the first half again. Teaching matters at any age, and that includes adults. One adult review (Vender et al., 2022) found reading training still brought gains. The studies are small. How much an adult gains is still an open question. Our page on dyslexia in adult life sets out what we hold.
A diagnosis describes where you are today. It does not predict where you will be. Simon’s brother was not tested until university. He now holds two degrees and teaches. See your own school years in your child? Read what adult reading struggles tell you about your child.
Key takeaways
- Fear often comes first: In Simon's experience, old school fear returns under pressure and capable adults freeze.
- Teaching matters at any age: The 2025 IDA definition says so, and that includes adults.
- Change the task first: Send reading ahead, keep talks short, and ask what already works.
What helps at work, starting this week?
To us, the first support is not software. It is lowering the fear. These ideas come from Simon’s time with Maria, and most of them are free.
- Start with what already works. You got this job, so you have real skills. A good manager asks what you already do to manage.
- Ask the person. A mental health charity once gave Simon this advice about a colleague. Ask her. She will know what support she needs.
- Change the task, not the person. Maria found maps hard. So she drove to a new place a day or two early.
- Keep talk in short parts. Long meetings need breaks and a clear start and end.
- Send reading ahead. Do not hand someone a paper and ask for a view on the spot. Simon says it should go out early to everyone.
- Check in along the way. Clear goals with check-ins are fair. A surprise report due at five is not.
- Find quiet. Maria works from home now. With no noise, she rereads her emails and catches her own mistakes.
When you ask for support, Simon suggests a plain script. Here is what I am good at. Here is where I need support.
Maria brought something else, too. She found a way to teach budgeting by treating time as money. It became a core lesson. Simon was careful here. He was not sure people who struggle with reading are more creative. He said they tend to see things from a different angle. We see it too. We have not found research that ties it to dyslexia. Strengths like this are earned through the struggle. They are not a prize for it.
A diagnosis describes where you are today, not where you will be.
Laura Lurns · Learning Success expert
You want to do good work, and you want your child to read with ease. The wait-to-fail system made too many readers struggle for years before anyone looked. You do not need anyone’s permission to change that for your family. If your child came to mind as you read, take one free step. It asks what you see at home and is not a diagnosis. Start with the free dyslexia screener.
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