Someone says it is the screens. Someone else blames the teaching. A relative says it runs in the family. You lie awake hunting for the one reason school is so hard. Under that search sits a scarier question. Will this hold them back for good? You are not the only parent asking it.
Common questions from parents
What causes learning difficulties in children?
Does a learning difficulty limit how far my child can go?
Is my child less smart because reading is hard?
What should I do first?
No single cause sits behind a learning difficulty, and it is not a ceiling. Practice the exact skill, build on strengths, celebrate each win.
What does this infographic say about learning difficulties?
The infographic takes on two myths. Then it gives parents three steps. Here it is in plain words.
- Myth one: one cause. Learning difficulties do not come from one single thing. Genes, the brain and a child’s surroundings work together.
- Myth two: a fixed limit. A difficulty is not a ceiling on what your child can do.
- Step one: support the exact skill. Practice the skill your child finds hard.
- Step two: build from strengths. Notice what your child does well, and build on it.
- Step three: celebrate every win. Name each bit of progress out loud.
The image also shows a success rate. No source we hold backs that number, so we leave it out. It also talks about rewiring the brain. That is a picture of learning, not a brain scan. Skills grow through practice, and that is the part to hold on to.
“Stop hunting for the one cause. Start with the one skill in front of you.” Laura Lurns
Laura Lurns · Learning Success expert
Is there one cause behind my child’s learning difficulty?
To us, the honest answer is no. The International Dyslexia Association rewrote its definition of dyslexia in 2025. It says the causes are complex. Genes, the brain and a child’s surroundings all play a part. They work together as a child grows.
That definition is about dyslexia. Our position is that other learning difficulties work the same way. So you do not need to find the one cause. To us, there is not one to find.
That is good news, even if it feels messy. A search for one cause tends to end in one label. A label names the difficulty. It does not tell you what to teach next.
Here is what helps instead. Look at what is hard, one skill at a time. When reading is hard, we look at more than reading. The sounds, the page, holding words in mind. Write down what you see at home. Note the task, the day and what got hard. Our page on what causes dyslexia walks through the 2025 definition.
Key takeaways
- No single cause: Genes, the brain and a child's surroundings work together.
- No ceiling: A diagnosis describes where your child is today, not where they end up.
- Three steps: Practice the exact skill, build from strengths, and celebrate every win.
Does a learning difficulty put a ceiling on my child?
Our answer is no. “A diagnosis describes where your child is today. It does not predict where they’ll be in a year of the right kind of practice.”
The 2025 definition also dropped an old line. The 2002 version called the difficulty “often unexpected” next to a child’s other abilities. Catts and colleagues (2026) explain why it went. Those IQ-gap tests “lack predictive validity.” In plain words, they did not predict well. Struggling to read says nothing about how smart your child is. This page on dyslexia and intelligence says more.
Here is the infographic’s parent plan, in our words.
- Practice the exact skill. If sounding out words is hard, practice sounding out words. Keep sessions short and calm.
- Build from this child’s strengths. Notice what your child does well. Let that be a place where they feel capable. The hard skill still gets its practice too.
- Celebrate every win. Say what you saw: “You stuck with that word.” Small wins, named out loud, help a child keep going.
“The causes of dyslexia are complex and involve combinations of genetic, neurobiological, and environmental influences that interact throughout development.” International Dyslexia Association, definition of dyslexia, 2025
“A hard skill is not a low ceiling. It is the next thing to teach.” Laura Lurns
Laura Lurns · Learning Success expert
Your child is not one cause or one fixed limit. Your child is a learner, and you are their first teacher. Finding one label and stopping there has never taught a child a skill. Our free Learning Difficulties Analysis asks what you see at home. It is a starting point, not a diagnosis. Only a professional evaluation can get an IEP or 504 plan. Start the free Learning Difficulties Analysis.
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A screener is a starting point, not a diagnosis. If your child might need formal accommodations (an IEP or 504 plan), or you suspect a vision, hearing or medical cause, pursue a professional evaluation too. That is the only route to those supports.
References
- International Dyslexia Association (2025). Definition of dyslexia.
- Catts, H. W., Haynes, C. W., & Joshi, R. M. (2026). Defining dyslexia: 2025 revision. Annals of Dyslexia.



