How can teachers work with parents who are concerned about dyslexia?

Last updated: January 17, 2026

You’ve seen it happen in parent-teacher conferences—a parent leans forward, voice dropping slightly, asking if you’ve noticed their child working harder than classmates just to keep up with reading. Maybe they hesitate, worried they’ll sound like “one of those parents.” What they don’t say is how many nights they’ve spent searching online, wondering if they’re imagining things or failing their child somehow. If a parent has come to you with concerns about reading or asked questions about dyslexia, know this: that conversation took courage. They’re not looking for a diagnosis or an argument. They’re looking for someone who will finally say, “I see it too.”

TL;DR

Reading differences indicate need for specific instruction, not limitations in intelligence or potential
Brain imaging research shows neural pathways for reading can be built at any age with proper support
Start conversations by listening to parent observations and sharing strength-based classroom insights
Daily home practice using systematic approaches often outperforms weekly specialist sessions
Parents who raise concerns are partners seeking collaboration, not problems to manage

Understanding the Parent Experience

When a parent walks into your classroom with concerns about their child’s reading development, they’re often carrying months—sometimes years—of quiet worry. They’ve watched their child work harder than classmates for smaller gains. They’ve heard “give it time” from well-meaning family members while their gut tells them something different. These parents aren’t looking to assign blame or create problems. They’re looking for a partner who sees what they see.

As a teacher, you’re in a unique position. You observe their child in ways parents cannot—among peers, during instruction, responding to different teaching approaches. You notice patterns that help complete the picture. When you approach parent concerns about reading differences with curiosity rather than defensiveness, you become the ally these families desperately need. Your observations, combined with their instincts, create a fuller understanding of where this child is in their reading development journey.

The conversation isn’t about labels or limitations. It’s about understanding how this particular brain learns to read and what support will help it thrive.

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The Brain Science Teachers Should Share

Here’s something powerful you can share with parents: reading isn’t a natural human ability. Unlike speaking, which children acquire through exposure, reading must be explicitly taught. The brain must learn to connect visual symbols to sounds—a process called orthographic mapping. For some children, this connection develops quickly. For others, it requires more systematic instruction. Neither path indicates intelligence or potential.

Brain imaging studies offer remarkable hope. Children who need extra support with reading show different patterns of brain activation during reading tasks. But here’s what matters: with intensive, systematic phonics instruction, these patterns normalize. The brain rewires itself. This isn’t wishful thinking—it’s documented neuroscience research. The earlier this targeted instruction begins, the more dramatic the results.

When you share this with parents, you’re giving them something they rarely hear: evidence that their child’s brain is capable of growth. The question isn’t whether their child can become a strong reader. The question is what kind of instruction will help their brain build those reading pathways.

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Neuroscience research shows that systematic phonics instruction rewires the brain for reading success in children with reading differences. The brain remains plastic and capable of developing reading skills throughout childhood.

Laura Lurns Learning Success Expert

Expert Insight: Brain imaging studies show that children with reading differences display different patterns of neural activation during reading tasks—but after just weeks of systematic phonics instruction, these same brain regions light up as brightly as proficient readers. The brain rewires itself for reading success.

How to Handle These Conversations

The best parent-teacher conversations about reading concerns start with listening. Let parents describe what they’re observing at home. Ask open-ended questions: “What happens during homework time?” “When did you first notice reading was harder for them?” Their answers provide context that classroom observations alone cannot.

Share specific, strength-based observations. Instead of “Your child is behind in reading,” try “Your child shows strong comprehension when I read aloud, and we’re building their decoding skills.” This language acknowledges the concern without defining the child by a struggle. It also aligns with current understanding that reading differences often come with cognitive strengths—pattern recognition, big-picture thinking, creative problem-solving.

If parents ask about dyslexia specifically, you can point them toward screening tools like the Learning Success dyslexia screener as a starting point. These aren’t diagnostic, but they help identify whether further evaluation might be helpful. More importantly, emphasize that regardless of any label, the path forward is the same: systematic, explicit reading instruction that builds foundational skills.

Partner with parents on home support strategies. The 5-Minute Reading Fix approach prevents “word guessing” habits by presenting words letter-by-letter before showing pictures. Short, consistent daily practice often outperforms weekly specialist sessions.

Key Takeaways:

Reading is NOT natural and must be explicitly taught

Brain imaging shows reading differences normalize with systematic instruction

Parents are powerful partners whose daily practice multiplies classroom efforts

Creating a Collaborative Path Forward

One conversation isn’t a finish line—it’s a beginning. Establish how you’ll stay connected. Some teachers send brief weekly notes about reading progress. Others schedule monthly check-ins. The format matters less than the consistency. When parents feel informed, they feel empowered to support their child at home.

Be honest about what falls within your role and what requires additional expertise. If a child isn’t responding to classroom interventions, connect families with reading specialists, educational therapists, or school evaluation services. Frame these referrals as expanding the support team, not as passing the problem along.

Most importantly, remind parents that they are their child’s most powerful teacher. Not because of credentials, but because of the daily presence, the patience, and the love they bring. Research consistently shows that parent involvement is the strongest predictor of reading success. When you validate their instincts and equip them with strategies, you multiply your classroom efforts.

Parents who approach you with dyslexia concerns aren’t adversaries. They’re partners who noticed something and had the courage to speak up. By meeting them with empathy, evidence, and practical support, you help ensure that no child’s reading potential goes unrecognized—or unfulfilled.

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Brain scans show that children who need extra reading support have different patterns of brain activation—but with intensive systematic instruction, these patterns normalize. Success depends on instruction quality, not innate ability.

Here’s what I want every teacher to know: when parents come to you with concerns about their child’s reading, they’re not challenging your expertise. They’re offering you something precious—their trust. These parents have watched “wait and see” approaches turn into years of struggle while windows for intervention narrowed. They’ve been told their worries are overreaction while their instincts screamed otherwise. You have the power to be different. You can be the educator who listens, observes, and partners with families instead of dismissing them. The children who struggle most with reading aren’t broken or limited—they simply need instruction that matches how their brains learn. And parents who advocate for their children aren’t difficult—they’re exactly what every struggling reader needs. If you’re a parent reading this and looking for ways to support your child at home while working with teachers, start your free trial of the Learning Success All Access Program. Because every child deserves a team that believes in their potential.

References

National Reading Panel (2000) - Systematic Phonics Instruction - Found that systematic phonics significantly improves reading achievement and prevents common reading problems
Science of Reading Research - Neuroplasticity and Reading Development - Brain imaging demonstrates that intensive reading instruction creates new neural pathways and normalizes activation patterns in struggling readers
International Dyslexia Association - Reading Intervention Best Practices - Evidence shows children with reading differences achieve grade-level reading with intensive, explicit instruction regardless of initial ability