Understanding the discomfort of disclosing dyslexia to your boss can help you prepare better
Disclosing dyslexia to a boss can feel awkward and embarrassing. Many adults with dyslexia have experienced this discomfort firsthand, often feeling unsure about how to articulate their needs. The initial instinct might be to downplay the condition, which only adds to the awkwardness and leaves both parties uncertain about the next steps.
Discussing Dyslexia with Your Boss
Living with dyslexia as an adult can present unique challenges, especially in professional settings. It’s not your fault that you have dyslexia, but taking responsibility for how you communicate your needs to your employer can significantly enhance your work life. This article, inspired by insights from the “Dyslexia and Adults” podcast, offers guidance on how to confidently discuss your dyslexia with your boss, emphasizing the importance of early and clear communication.
Shifting the focus from dyslexia to your needs can make the conversation more productive
One effective strategy is to shift the conversation away from the label of dyslexia and towards your specific needs at work. Instead of making the disclosure about your condition, frame it around what will help you perform better. This approach reduces anxiety and centers the discussion on practical solutions that benefit both you and your employer.
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The whole interaction can feel so uncomfortable and that’s why one of the key areas that we want to help you with is trying to figure out what to say and how to manage the conversation in a way less uncomfortable and awkward way.
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Using relatable analogies can help demystify the support you need
Imagine you’re on crutches due to a foot injury and need to take the elevator instead of the stairs. This analogy, suggested in the podcast, illustrates that needing different accommodations at work due to dyslexia is not a sign of weakness but a practical necessity. Just as you would confidently choose the elevator, you can confidently ask for the accommodations that will help you reach your work goals.
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Confidence in Conversations: When discussing dyslexia with your boss, focus on the value and support you need to perform your job effectively. Instead of feeling embarrassed or awkward about your dyslexia, frame the conversation around specific accommodations that will help you work more efficiently, such as regular check-ins to manage priorities and deadlines. This approach shifts the focus from the disability to your professional needs and capabilities.
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Early and Proactive Communication: It's crucial to ask for support as early as possible, ideally at the start of a new project or role, or when you first notice challenges. Requesting accommodations in advance demonstrates organization and proactivity, making the conversation less about fixing problems and more about optimizing your workflow. This can significantly reduce discomfort and improve your working relationship with your boss.
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Reframing the Narrative: Change the internal narrative about dyslexia from being a burden to a unique aspect of how you work. By focusing on what will help you achieve your best work, you can take the 'sting' out of the conversation. Use analogies like needing to take the elevator instead of the stairs to explain your needs without directly mentioning dyslexia, which can help reduce anxiety and make the discussion more about practical solutions than personal challenges.
Emphasizing the value of your requests can lead to more supportive responses from your employer
When discussing your needs, focus on how the requested support will add value to your work. For instance, regular check-in meetings to plan your week can help ensure you meet deadlines and reduce errors. By framing your needs in terms of Dyslexia, you emphasize the positive outcomes for your boss, such as improved productivity and reliability, making them more likely to support your requests.
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The best thing that you can do is take dyslexia out of the conversation because that can really make you feel anxious, make you feel uncomfortable.
”Overcoming the challenge of dyslexia through neuroplasticity can lead to a better professional life
One of the key challenges for adults with dyslexia is the fear of being seen as a burden. However, by leveraging the brain’s ability for Neuroplasticity, you can develop strategies to manage your dyslexia effectively. It’s your responsibility to communicate your needs early and clearly, which not only helps you perform better but also showcases your proactive approach to your professional development. By doing so, you pave the way for a more fulfilling and successful career.
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