Dyscalculia Didn’t Add Up—So Michelle Steiner Rewrote the Equation
Imagine a kid staring at an analog clock, seeing hands and numbers but no sense—then fast-forward to her snapping butterfly pics and penning blogs that inspire thousands. That’s Michelle Steiner’s story, shared with host Tonya Wollum on the “Water Prairie Chronicles” podcast, where her dyscalculia—a math-muddling learning difference—didn’t doom her but defined her grit. From bullied elementary outcast to college grad and peer educator, Michelle’s journey proves brains can bend, not break. Parents, if your child’s flunking fractions or fumbling locks, this one’s for you—because it’s not a flaw, it’s a feature.
The Number Crunch That Wasn’t
Michelle’s dyscalculia isn’t about flipping digits—it’s a brain glitch that scrambles math’s logic. “I don’t understand how numbers work,” she admits, from multiplication tables to clock faces. Add limited hand dexterity (goodbye, neat handwriting) and visual perception hiccups (hello, crop-circle mowing), and school was a maze. Diagnosed in the ‘80s under a vague “learning disability” umbrella, it wasn’t until adulthood that “dyscalculia” clicked. Parents, sound familiar? Labels evolve, but the struggle’s real—your kid’s not “bad at math”; their brain’s just wired for a different dance.
School Days: Bullies, Bikes, and Breakthroughs
Elementary meant repeating kindergarten, splitting time between mainstream and resource rooms, and dodging volleyballs that sparked blinks, not catches. “I stuck out like a sore thumb,” Michelle says, recalling small-town peers who branded her “dumb.” Middle school cliques deepened the sting, but a high school gym teacher’s “ride the bike” lifeline—and an art group outside her district—cracked the isolation. Neuroplasticity nugget: outlets like these rewire confidence when classrooms don’t. Parents, nudge your child toward their spark—art, sports, anything—because belonging trumps bullies every time.
Author Quote“
I don’t understand how numbers work… I can’t read an analog clock—it just doesn’t make sense.
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College Conquests: Typing Through the Fog
High school doubters—“You can’t handle college”—nearly derailed her, but Michelle nabbed an associate’s in early childhood, then a bachelor’s, leaning on typing (a year-long slog), extended test time, and tutors. “I made Dean’s List once,” she beams, defying the “math handicapped” tag from an adult eval. Her secret? Advocating hard, ignoring stigma, and picking a near-mathless path. Parents, this is your kid’s brain flexing—support isn’t cheating, it’s sculpting. Push them to own their needs; those neural pathways will thank you.
Key Takeaways:
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Math’s Not the End: Dyscalculia scrambles numbers, not potential—Michelle’s career proves it’s a detour, not a dead end.
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Outlets Unlock Growth: Art and exercise beat bullies, showing neuroplasticity thrives on passion, not just academics.
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Advocacy Rewires: Embracing supports like typing and tutors turned Michelle’s struggles into strengths—parents, push for it
From Pain to Purpose: Blogging and Butterflies
Today, Michelle’s a peer educator in Pennsylvania, guiding kids with disabilities through the chaos she once faced. Her blog, Michelle’s Mission, spills her story—dyscalculia, dexterity woes, and all—while her photography captures butterflies she raises with kits. “Writing’s healing,” she says, connecting with readers who see themselves in her words. Parents, this is resilience in bloom—she’s not “stuck”; she’s soaring. Your child’s quirks? They’re raw material for a masterpiece, if you help them shape it.
Author Quote“
Writing’s been the most healing thing… connecting with people who say, ‘That’s my story.
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Difference Isn’t Deficit
Dyscalculia’s the villain here—clouding clocks, taunting tests, fueling taunts—but Michelle slayed it with grit and grace. “I’d choose it again,” she declares, owning its creative edge. Parents, stop mourning what your kid can’t do; champion what they can. Schools won’t always get it (they didn’t in the ‘80s, and some still don’t), so you’ve got to step up—find their tribe, fight for tools, enforce the effort. Brains change, futures pivot, and Michelle’s proof: your child’s not broken, they’re building. Lead the charge, or the real loss is theirs.
