If you have read the comments on dyslexia videos, there are a few very common threads you have seen. Many of them about how dyslexia has affected people emotionally. Some about how it has held them back in life. Some about how they have avoided certain jobs where their dyslexia would be exposed. And many about how they have learned to protect themselves emotionally and have learned coping mechanisms. All of this is true. All of those things happen.

In addition to those stories, there is one common, very positive comment that often stands alone. No one ever seems to respond to it. They disagree with it but they don’t understand it, so they stay quiet. And that needs to change. Because this common statement is deceiving.

This common statement has embedded in it, both a truth and a lie.

Like all persuasive, but not helpful ideas, there is some truth to it. But if you don’t understand it fully, well, it leads you down a very bad path. Watch this full video and you will understand both the truth, and the lie. And if you understand both, that will guide your decisions to lead you, or whoever you are aiming to help with this knowledge, to a much better life.

So what is that statement that I am talking about? Well, it usually goes something like this.

 

Dyslexia is a Gift?

“I wouldn’t give up my dyslexia for the world!”

Or

“My dyslexia is a gift”

People that say this truly believe it, because there is actually truth in it. A lot of truth. But even so, it is deceiving. And the deception has to do with the stage you are in.

 

For someone that is experiencing the pain of feeling left out, low self-esteem, emotional distress, and being held back in life, that statement can seem very strange. The statement usually comes from someone older. From a time when there was no help for the problem.  So instead, they spent a lifetime developing coping mechanisms. Or just dealing with emotional issues. 

But for the person early in the journey, all they can see is the pain. A parent doesn’t want their child to go through that pain. They don’t want their child to suffer emotionally. And, armed with a little knowledge, they don’t have to. 

I’m here to tell you that it is not necessary to deal with that pain for a lifetime. You don’t have to just “live with it”. And you shouldn’t. Your child shouldn’t. There is a way through. Modern psychology and modern neuroscience, when combined, can truly turn it into a gift. Modern psychology and neuroscience can also teach you how to turn that low self-esteem into high self-esteem. Turn that emotional distress into joy. And bring out the true gift, that if handled well, can propel a person in life. Doesn’t that sound better than just suffering through?

 

Don’t Give This Advice

Statements like “I wouldn’t give up my dyslexia for the world” can be damaging to others. It can stop them from bettering themselves. It can lead them down a wrong path. If you are the person who spreads this sort of statement. Please stop. Sure, it makes YOU feel better. It makes YOU feel more important. And honestly, it is probably feeding your ego. But when you tell it to others, early in their journey, without giving them the full story, you may be robbing them of a better life. And that is not Okay! 

Let’s cover the truth in that statement first. It is actually something amazing and powerful. But so is the lie.