Dyslexia Unlocked: A Homeschool Mom’s Fight for Her Kids’ Words
Picture Jake, slumped in his co-op chair, dreading the read-aloud—his mom, Jen Milton, watching his face scream “I’m drowning.” Then flip to 2.3 million fourth graders lagging below grade level, 52 million adults stuck under third-grade reading. Jen’s tale on the “Don’t Call Me” podcast—hosted by Megan (Dyslexia on Demand) and Aaron (Advocate to Educate)—is a gut punch of dyslexia’s grind and grit. I’m Laura Lurns—child psychologist, parenting coach, and neuroplasticity evangelist—and Jen’s homeschool journey with two dyslexic kids hits home. It’s not just struggle; it’s a silver lining we can all grab—if we ditch the stigma and act.
The Optometrist Epiphany: Seeing Beyond Shapes
Jen’s dyslexia odyssey kicked off at the eye doctor—wild, right? Her son, flagged in 2021 after shunning letters, wasn’t “taking his time” as homeschool lore promised. That gentle “wait ‘til they’re ready” vibe? A trap. Severe dyslexia confirmed via private testing (ouch, the bill!) showed he wouldn’t “just get it.” I’ve seen it—parents hushed by “he’s fine” miss the window. Jen’s optometrist sparked truth: if something’s off, trust your gut. Early intervention’s gold; 35% of kids snag reading naturally, but most—like Jen’s—need more.
Co-op Crash: The Pain of Falling Behind
At co-op, Jen saw her son sink—peers zipped through, he flailed, anxiety spiked. “He looked at papers like they had germs,” she laughs now, but then? Heartbreak. I’ve coached families through this: dyslexia’s not laziness—it’s a brain begging for the right path. Jen yanked him out, pivoted to a hybrid school with a dyslexia pro. Consistency clicked—online tutoring via Dyslexia on Demand swapped chaos for calm. He wrote “apples” on a shopping list—legible, proud. That’s the win: not perfection, but progress.
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He looked at books or papers or anything—he looked like it had germs on it.
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Sibling Symphony: Strengths in Diversity
With four kids, Jen’s homeschool is a mini lab. Her dyslexic duo bond—“I’m like you!” her six-year-old chirps—while others breeze through reading. Jealousy? Sure, her son griped when his sister skipped therapy. But Jen shields struggles, celebrates quirks. Her son built a book bridge—held his teacher!—while peers froze. A growth mindset shines here: dyslexia’s not a superpower or curse, just a difference—like left-handed smudges. Empathy and grit? Gifts forged in the grind.
Key Takeaways:
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Early intervention beats “wait”—Jen’s optometrist sparked a dyslexia catch at 8
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Sharing struggles builds community—Jen’s son thrives when friends know.
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A growth mindset turns differences into strengths, not superpowers or flaws.
Breaking Silence: Sharing Heals
Jen’s gem? Get kids talking. Her son’s pals know he’s in therapy—“See you at 3!” they shrug, normalizing it like a dentist trip. I’ve seen it free kids—sharing “this is me” slashes shame. Yet, homeschool circles hush it, fearing “disability” labels. Jen’s stunned—community leaders whisper “me too” after she speaks up. Isolation kills; connection heals. One in five adults lags in literacy—52 million Sarahs hiding from menus. Openness builds a tribe; silence traps us.
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If you think something’s wrong, you’re probably right.
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Your Move: Focus Fuels Freedom
The villain’s apathy—“he’ll catch up” myths and stigma clog the fix. Jen’s son reads cards now, not germs. You’re the first coach—ditch the “wait” lie, grab phonics, build a buddy network. A homeschool kit for dyslexia? Genius. Want a jumpstart? My 5 Minute Reading Fix course hones focus fast—five minutes daily to crack words, boost confidence. Click it—Jake’s not alone, and neither are you. Let’s rewrite this story!
