That may be funny but it’s no joke when your child struggles with following instructions. Am I right?    

Hi, I’m Samantha from Learning Success and I made this video to help you understand why your child might be having trouble following instructions. There are a few possible reasons so let’s narrow those down. And what they may mean for your child.

These problems affect a lot of children. We’d like to help them. Would you help us do that by clicking the like button and subscribing if you haven’t already. That helps us get this to more parents so they can help their children too.

Let’s start.

The first thing to talk about is working memory. Following instructions requires good working memory skills. But what is working memory?

People talk about working memory as if it’s one thing. It’s not. Working memory is actually made up of several types of memory. Those are Visual memory, auditory memory, kinesthetic memory, and visual-spatial memory. All of these combine to form working memory.

But there’s actually more to it than that. You see, when we try to remember something we have a choice of how to remember it. Which type of memory will we use? Some people will try to use just auditory memory. Others will use just visual spatial memory. But those with the best working memory skills will use all of the types of memory together. That’s the best strategy. That’s the one you want to help your child move toward. 

You can help your child improve their working memory. Brains can improve at any age, but the earlier you start, the easier it is. Young brains naturally have neuroplasticity. As you get older you have to work a little harder at it to make changes in your brain. You still can, it just takes more effort. So start as soon as possible.

Working memory is actually made up of visual memory, auditory memory, kinesthetic memory, and visual-spatial memory. If you help your child build each of those up, then you are also building up working memory. We call those the cognitive micro-skills and there is a link in the description to more info on those.

The next thing to do is to get all of those cognitive micro-skills working together better. Let me give you an example of how that works. In this example we will use auditory memory and visual memory.