Imagine your child’s emotions as a wild kaleidoscope—dazzling, dizzying, and desperate for a frame. In a vibrant International Classroom podcast, host Alex chats with Nadim Saad, bestselling author and founder of Happy Confident Company, who’s flipping parenting and teaching with social-emotional learning (SEL). From authoritarian flops to “Feel It” cards, Nadim’s journey—sparked by his Montessori-teacher wife—proves 5-10 minutes daily can transform kids’ resilience. Affecting 5-15% of neurodivergent kids and beyond, his tools tame overwhelm. Parents, you’re the maestros—don’t let “soft” myths dim their shine. Tune in, and turn chaos into connection.
From Flop to Framework
Nadim’s tale kicks off with a humbling twist: “I thought I was a great dad—my wife disagreed!” An entrepreneur turned parenting guru, he ditched “no manual” excuses after she modeled SEL gems. His mission? Blend neuroscience and practicality—think 150+ videos and 1,000 activities chunked into 5-10 minutes daily. “Kids don’t learn to be human in curriculums,” he laments—schools churn content, not character. Parents, if your child’s a whirlwind, it’s not rebellion; it’s a brain craving regulation. Nadim’s fix proves less is more.
Naming the Noise
Here’s the genius: Nadim’s “Feel It” cards—color-coded for energy and pleasantness—unlock kids’ Visual-Spatial Memory to name feelings beyond “happy, sad, angry.” “Name it to tame it,” he quotes Dan Siegel—neuroscience shows labeling slashes intensity in 90 seconds. From “pressured” to “powerless,” kids pick three, then flip to “safe, loved, understood.” Parents, if your child’s tantrum baffles, hand them these cards—watch “stupid” shift to strategy, building agency over overwhelm.
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I thought I was a great dad—my wife disagreed!
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School’s SEL Shortcut
Nadim’s bottom-up magic? Morning “real talk”—5-10 minutes of videos and chats on 12 feelings per grade (think “patronized” by Year 8). Teachers aren’t counselors; they’re upskilled with tools like “Pause, Breathe, Smile” (PBS) to dodge fight-flight-freeze. “Headteachers hear kids sharing in corridors,” he beams—92% feel safer, 78% more confident in two months. Parents, push for this—your school’s registration slump could spark a kinder, calmer crew.
Schools transform: Morning SEL builds safer, kinder kids.
Beyond the Soft Scare
Critics cry “soft kids”? Nadim flips it: “Suppression’s old-school—we’re raising feeling shifters.” Today’s 10x thought overload (thanks, AI and screens) demands emotional resilience, not grit-and-bear-it. His 10 Powers—from introspection to creativity—equip kids to pivot, not crumble. Parents, don’t dread coddling—your child’s “I hate math” isn’t weakness; it’s a cue for tools. Nadim’s mantra: “We’re all doing our best—help them do better.”
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Name it to tame it—90 seconds, neuroscience proves it.
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Apathy Fails
The villain? A system blind to SEL—curriculums sideline kids’ needs, leaving teachers swamped and parents guessing. Nadim’s antidote? Daily habits, not hour-long fixes—his Happy Confident Foundation aims for free access, no tick-box fluff. Parents, you’re the spark—snag those 5-10 minutes to connect. Nadim’s plea: “Stop accepting the unacceptable.” Build their Focus—because naming feelings ignites their best selves.
